tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113737536590192234.post8386878568365165318..comments2024-03-27T17:34:04.375+04:00Comments on Random Magus: LabelsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10719992587281654845noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113737536590192234.post-21754299970786971672007-05-07T09:33:00.000+04:002007-05-07T09:33:00.000+04:00Don't worry, when you're older like me, you'll rea...Don't worry, when you're older like me, you'll realise that it doesn't matter so much anymore how people perceive you. You become comfortable in your own skin and that's what matters most cos you're living your life for yourself, not anyone else.Blur Tinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07792543153416871887noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113737536590192234.post-5883302588797821042007-05-07T03:46:00.000+04:002007-05-07T03:46:00.000+04:00also why do we compare our realities with their fa...also why do we compare our realities with their facades? when i learned not to do this it made a huge impact on my life. <BR/><BR/>nice post and thanks for the visit and lovely comment!<BR/><BR/>smiles, beeEmpress Bee (of the high sea)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08300140506585000934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113737536590192234.post-54751798140223802552007-05-07T03:12:00.000+04:002007-05-07T03:12:00.000+04:00Thats so true - throughout my life I have felt fen...Thats so true - throughout my life I have felt fenced because of the way I appear to people,, 'cutesy' or 'silly' and sometimes I think I behave true to those statements - and it so difficult for me to keep telling myself I am not that or I am more than the impression I give.<BR/>Thats why I find blogging so liberating - there are no definitions or labels binding me.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10719992587281654845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113737536590192234.post-23048005457315264102007-05-07T03:07:00.000+04:002007-05-07T03:07:00.000+04:00This was a very interesting post, Random. I've fel...This was a very interesting post, Random. I've felt these things all my life, because people usually see me as something I'm not (or am I? XD). Most people that have known me for a long time tell me I look a bit <I>cold and distant</I>, but when you get to know me, they discover I'm not that way at all.<BR/>The other day I was talking to a guy I've just met a month ago at work and he said I've got an "evil face" (in a good way; he also mentioned a "delicious evil smile", lol), because of the way I move my eyebrows while looking at him. I think it depends a lot on who you're talking to and the relationship you've got with that person. My husband sees me in a completely different way, of course. <BR/>But anyway, in the end, I think it's really hard to let people know the real you because of everyone's point of view. I think that's only reserved for a few people.<BR/>Nice topic,<BR/>W.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113737536590192234.post-85488558814942743082007-05-07T02:54:00.000+04:002007-05-07T02:54:00.000+04:00But sometimes we fence ourselves in by the definit...But sometimes we fence ourselves in by the definition we give ourself.<BR/>I am so and so.. I want people to perceive myself and so and so... so I must behave this way<BR/>And its very difficult to get out of this box we put ourselves in -Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10719992587281654845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113737536590192234.post-66743756834653980882007-05-07T02:35:00.000+04:002007-05-07T02:35:00.000+04:00People need classifications which are set by the s...People need classifications which are set by the society you are in and your background. Social contacts and who you are they are different thingsPeter Haslamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540270073688574361noreply@blogger.com